How to spot a catfish on gay dating apps

Catfishing — when someone uses a fake identity online — is one of the most common reasons people quit dating apps. Here are the clearest warning signs and how to stay safe.

Red flags to watch for

• They refuse to video chat. A quick video call is the fastest way to confirm someone is real. Endless excuses are a red flag.
• Photos look too polished or inconsistent. Reverse-image-search their pictures; stolen photos often appear elsewhere online.
• They move fast emotionally, then ask for money. Classic romance-scam pattern.
• They push to move off the app immediately. Scammers want to get you somewhere with no protections.

How to protect yourself

• Always video chat before meeting.
• Never send money, gift cards, or crypto to someone you haven't met.
• Meet in public the first few times.
• Use apps that verify profiles so you know who's real from the start.