Safe ways to meet guys online
Meeting people online is normal and can be great — a few simple habits keep it safe.
Before you meet
- Video chat first to confirm they're real.
- Keep chats on a platform with reporting and blocking.
- Tell a friend where you're going and who with.
When you meet
- Meet in a public place the first time.
- Arrange your own transport.
- Trust your gut — if something feels off, leave.
Protect your privacy
- Don't share your home address or financial details.
- Use apps with discreet/privacy modes and verified profiles.
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